A few months ago, I wrote a piece on blindfolds for KOTW; when I talked to The Engineer about this, he mentioned that while he loves blindfolding me, he wasn’t really into being blindfolded. He’s a bit claustrophobic, so I think sensory deprivation and bondage generally aren’t comfortable for him. But then he said: “If you want to blindfold me, you can. I trust you.” My heart melted.
Fast forward to his recent visit; I was giving him a long body massage next to the fire one night, and inspiration struck. I asked him to turn over to his back; I grabbed my new furry blindfold and asked gently if I could put it on. The atmosphere was relaxed – candles, soft music, wine, warm and loving hands. I started out by touching his legs, arms, and stomach, and then moved onto his cock – hard as a rock – taking it alternately into my mouth as far as I could and then back into my hands, stroking it and running my tongue along its length. I sidled my body up his oiled body so that I could kiss him. Being kissed (especially a deep, sensual kiss) while blindfolded is a singular experience. It feels so intimate and electric because the sense of touch is heightened. All of the other senses are heightened. An ecstatic whimper emerged from his throat, and it was a beautiful sound to behold.
Roused by my memories of Sex and Lucia (if you haven’t seen this movie, stop reading right now and go watch it), I wet a finger and traced it along his lips; I dipped one nipple between his parted lips, followed by the other, which he relished. I raised myself so I could kneel over his face and gently lower my clit onto his waiting tongue; I’m sure the pressure of my knees against his ears and the resulting lack of sound added to his expanded tactile experience. He lapped at my swollen vulva, sticky with webs of viscous juices, until I needed him inside of me. I straddled his cock and slid him into my longing cunt. Usually the first contact is the most exquisite; especially so in this case. While riding him, I took off the blindfold and kissed him. We ended up having some of the best sex we’ve ever had – I felt so deeply entwined with him and completely present in the moment; he told me later that he felt the same.
Sometimes experimentation goes awry; however, sometimes it opens us up to new and exhilarating feelings and experiences. If you have a partner you deeply trust, try something new with them that you never thought you would like. You may end up having a pretty fucking great night.